You don't start with the roof?

Without the proper foundation everything eventually crumbles! The result of that is one failed relationship after another. Trust me I know this as I have failed to not only build the proper foundation in my relationships, but in my own life. I have realized in my case the proper foundation starts with God! It is the first and most important part of having an indestructable foundation. Next comes trust and love! Trust involves a lot more than what we usually associate with it. We have to know that the other person will always do the right thing and do it for the right reasons! We have to know that we are loved no matter how flawed or imperfect we are. We have to be determined and work at being better people through him everyday. We have to let go of the past and forgive each other and discover new ways to work as one to a common goal. We need to have a sense of health and safety! You have to communicate honestly and openly and work as a team to solve problems. That means you can't always be right! Once you do all this we will feel comfortable which is crucial to our feeling of security. Then comes God again. He holds together an unbreakable foundation and guides you to an incredible glorious bond that can only be made through him! I understand you! God bless!